Quick Click: 5 Ways to Respond to Superhero Play
When your child plays superhero or other good vs. evil games, he is exploring different power roles -- an important part of his social and moral growth. Still, this activity can easily escalate into chaos! Keep it from getting out of hand by following these guidelines.
1. Play it safe. Set clear boundaries (for example, no hitting or leaping off the couch) to remind your child that safety comes first.
2. Monitor your child's television watching. Keep violent TV shows and films to a minimum and always talk with your child about what she has seen and how she feels about it.
3. Encourage open communication. Remind your child that talking things out is always the best way to solve a problem. Encourage him to ask you for help if he is feeling troubled.
4. Use art as therapy. If your child is using violent games to express anger or other negative feelings, show her that she can substitute creative projects or exercise instead. Pounding on clay or taking a run helps alleviate frustration.
5. Be a part of the play. If he'll allow it, become involved in your child's game to gain a better perspective on what he's feeling.
